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EATING DISORDERS: When food stops feeling simple.

A meal can become an entire conversation inside your head. What did I eat earlier? How many calories are in this? Did I eat too much? Should I skip dinner? Everyone else is eating—why can't I just eat normally? Maybe you avoid photographs. Maybe getting dressed can change your entire mood. Maybe one comment about your body stays with you for days. Maybe compliments about weight loss feel good and painful at the same time because nobody knows what was happening behind them.

Eating concerns can occupy an enormous amount of mental space.

Planning. Counting. Comparing. Checking. Avoiding. Compensating. Promising yourself tomorrow will be different. Feeling in control. Feeling completely out of control. Sometimes food becomes connected to perfectionism, control, stress, identity, relationships, athletics, appearance, or experiences that seem completely unrelated to eating. And sometimes the outside world reinforces exactly what is hurting you. People praise weight loss without asking why it happened. Social media gives you another body to compare yourself to every few seconds. Family members make comments they consider harmless. You begin viewing your body as something that constantly needs correcting.

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You are more than a body to manage.

At Renna Counseling, there is room to talk about the relationship underneath the behavior. Your relationship with food. Your relationship with control. Your relationship with your body. And perhaps most importantly, your relationship with yourself. The conversation does not have to begin with loving every part of your appearance. Sometimes it begins much more simply: What would life feel like if food and your body did not occupy quite so much of your mind?

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